The Three Kingdoms is a revelation for adults and a textbook for children.

Jin Yong once said: "The social influence of Romance of The Three Kingdoms far exceeds its literary value."

A "Romance of The Three Kingdoms" look at all the domestic and national affairs, but in the final analysis, or the world.

Among them contain 6 life taboo, it is worth taking lessons from posterity.



Broken promises, capricious.

As the saying goes, the red rabbit in the middle of the horse, lv Bu.

I believe that every young person reading The Three Kingdoms, feel lv Bu is very strong.

However, in the competition, Lv bu not only did not achieve a great cause, but deteriorated, exhausted, the body died.

Chen Shou assessed in the Annals of The Three Kingdoms:

"Bu xiao Hu's courage and lack of inchedness; his light cunning and slight cunning go over and over and look only for advantage. Since ancient times and today, there has been no such thing as this has not been destroyed."

Tell the cruel truth about Lv Bu's failure.

Even if the champion, the world is unbeatable, Lv bu has lost the biggest card in life: integrity.

He killed his adoptive father Ding Yuan for altruism, killed his adoptive father Dong Zhuo for color, and then turned to Yuan Shu, Yang Yang, Yuan Shao, and Cao Cao, who rebelled again.

He changed his master six times in his life and was called three family slaves.

Before He was executed by Cao Cao, Lu Bu refused to intercee for Liu Bei because he broke his promise, and blasted him as "the most impossible believer".

Perhaps it was only when he died that he truly realized the horror of a man who breaks his word.

The Master said, "A man without faith will not stand, and a man without faith will not prosper."

Integrity, is not only a character, but also a responsibility;

Is not only a moral, but also a principle.

If you slip, you can get up right away.

A broken promise may never be redeemed.



A little wit makes a great master, and a great master will enrich the mind

The end of the Eastern Han Dynasty divided into three kingdoms, Wei, Shu and Wu successively established the regime.

But it was not Cao Liu or Sun Quan who first proclaimed himself emperor in The Three Kingdoms. It was Yuan Shu.

Yuan Shu was born of noble family, the fourth generation of the yuan family, and his disciples were all over the world. Compared with yuan Shao, the eldest brother of his half-brother's maid, yuan Shu was the elder brother's son and grandson.

It should be said that such a person, a little intelligence, can be in the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty in the turbulent times.

But he just beat his good hand to a pulp.

In the Romance of The Three Kingdoms, there is a scene in which Sun Jian, one of the eighteen princes, takes the lead and goes straight to the Yellow Dragon.

Yuan Shu was responsible for the total logistics of the allied forces, but he was afraid of sun Jian as a subordinate to do big, deliberately delay the supply of grain, lit the fuse of the allied forces collapse.

Sun Ce took the imperial seal with him and went to Yuan Shu for refuge. After obtaining the seal, Yuan Shu, without thinking about it, set himself up as emperor and plunged himself into the target of public criticism.

After all, by virtue of your background and influence, if you can manage well and recruit talents, you can make a great success.

But he is extravagant and extravagant, hag beauty three thousand, all are beautiful, and the army a soldier elder brother and the people under the administration are hungry and cold.

So when the vassal came to attack, there was a result of treason, spitting blood and dying.

"Notes on the Book of Changes" said: "A little wit and a great plan, can not bear its responsibility, by its humiliation, disaster itself.

Don't work on China without diamonds.

Ideal and ambition are necessary, but also need to have a certain ability to support, so as to really go a long way.



A small burden, self - righteous

In The Romance of The Three Kingdoms, Zhuge Kongming, a man who was wise and close to demons, almost ruined his famous life because of a single man.

He was Ma Su.

As a result of the campaign in the southwest of Dingding, ma Su, the young general, was unexpectedly promoted by Zhuge Liang, and even intended to take him as his successor.

The su from heaven, let Ma Su lost his mind, and even gave birth to Zhuge Liang, Sima Yi also no great illusion.

So, there was the famous allusion to "Zhu Geliang cut Ma Su with tears".

"Although the pavilion is small, it is important. If we lose the street booth, our army will be in danger. In spite of all your stratagy, the street pavilion is a very difficult place to defend."

It was obvious that Zhuge Liang was well aware of Ma Su's ability. Although he was gifted in strategy, He was far from capable of taking the lead alone.

Unfortunately, Zhuge Liang's good intentions, to Ma Su there became the contempt of their own.

So, unexpectedly desperate set written pledge to fulfill a military order, make not successful then become benevolence oath.

Zhuge Liang had no choice but to let him guard the pass and sent Wang Ping and Wei Yan to help him.

As a result, we also saw that Ma Su not only blindly despise the enemy, do not listen to others, but also arbitrarily changed the battle plan, and finally exhausted the three armies, laid his life in vain.

Zeng Guofan said, "Less effort is the center."

A person should know how much weight he has. If he overreaches his limit, the result is often unbearable weight of life.



Be conceited and arrogant

If you want to choose the "most hurtful words" in romance of The Three Kingdoms, the following sentence must rank in the top.

"My tiger daughter Ann is willing to marry a dog son."

Say this sentence is not others, it is "wu Shengye" Guan Yu.

Sun Quan, as the master of the country, condescended to beg for relatives.

You politely refuse all right, but speak ironically, make Sun Quan great loss of face, for their own buried the curse of the wheat.

As a matter of fact, you can see from guan erye's usual style that he is extremely confident and conceited.

Wenjiu beheaded Hua Xiong, five passes beheaded six generals, killed Yan Liang, beheaded Wenchou... Almost all of them looked like they had it in their hands and sniffed at it.

Even in the hands of the elderly Huang Zhong did not have much of a hand, it is still an attitude of disdain.

In particular, When Liu Feng accepted liu Bei as his adopted son, Guan Yu opposed him directly, and was even more disliked by him later. He asked Liu Bei to "send" him to the Shangyong garrison.

Lao She once said, "Complacency is a terrible trap for us, and it is a trap dug by ourselves."

Guan Yu is proud of his talent and leaves a little affection for others.

This not only leads him to be coerce private revenge by Sun Quan, a "behead" the word ruthlessly decided his home to return to, also urge Liu Feng to sit on the sidelines, helplessly watch guan Yu hero fall.

As the Buddha said: "living like mustard seed with Xumi, the heart like small dust accumulation of thousands."

The heart is like mustard seed dust, seemingly insignificant, but hidden in the world.

When you truly learn to see someone in your eyes, you will have a path in your heart and a bright future in your heart.



Lose one's temper, lose one's temper

Xunzi said, "Anger is not conquered, but joy is not conquered."

People are not can not have emotions, but can not be affected by emotions.

Meng Zhangfei is a living example.

Although there are many moments of highlight in his life, his temper has become a natural barrier that zhang Fei is unable to overcome.

Beat du mail, so that just settled down to the three brothers, and had to exile;

He flogged Cao Bao, Lu Bu's mother-in-law, and let Lu Bu take over Xuzhou, thus losing the opportunity for development.

There is also the most deadly this time, heard that Guan Yu was killed, he was angry, avenged he gave two men Fan Jiang, Zhang Da arranged an impossible task:

"Three days for the three armed forces to buy a good white flag and white armor, to pay tribute to Wu, or military law service."

After only a few words of explanation, the two men were severely beaten.

Finally, Fan Jiang and Zhang Da could not bear it any more, so they stabbed Zhang Fei to death while he was asleep drunk. Then they took Zhang Fei's head and went to Soochow.

We do not deny the strong strength of Zhang Fei, but should be the heroic appearance of the world, but with this kind of pipework end, have to sigh.

Hu Shi once said, "The most abominable thing in the world is an angry face; The meanest thing in the world is to show an angry face to others, which is worse than beating and scolding."

No one is born with the ability to control their emotions. Truly wise people know how to remind themselves not to get caught in a bad mood.

Better be angry than angry. A stupid man is only angry. A wise man strives for strength but does not get angry.

A man's good temper is the blessing of his life.

Virtue is unworthy, and there will be a plague

If there is a "chief villain" among The Three Kingdoms, it is Dong Zhuo.

Historians assess it as: "the grave digger of the great man."

Throughout Dong Zhuo's life, it can be said that a man is either incompetent, a soldier is not skillful, a general is not fierce, a scholar is not wise, and opportunities are not many. It is a pity that virtue is not worthy of bete, and there will be disasters.

In 189 AD, dong Zhuo entered the temple after the chaos of the tenth Court, and became the official above all others.

When one has power, it is easy to swell, and the evil in human nature becomes manifest at the slightest neglect.

He first killed the little emperor Liu Bian and appointed Liu Xie emperor Xian of the Han Dynasty, covering the sky with one hand.

Then he occupied the harem and became dissolute.

Anyone who puts forward any objection to it is regarded as a thief and wantonly killed.

Just as the saying goes: "the one who gets the heart gets the world."

Dong Zhuo's character decided his fate.

Eighteen Road princes to attack the Dong, and was his adopted son Lu Bu behead.

The news of Dong Zhuo's death was greeted with shouts of long live the soldiers, songs and dances, and many people exchanged their jewelry for wine and meat to celebrate.

Huang Fu Song destroyed his family, dong Zhuo was abandoned and burned with ashes by the roadside of the market, which showed that his crime reached the height of heaven, and people and gods were all angry.

"Zhouyi" said: "The terrain kun, the gentleman to carry things with virtue.

Thick virtue to carry things, virtue is not thick people can not move.

Jin Yong said that events and figures in history should be viewed in the context of their historical circumstances. Political views and popular ideas in society change from time to time, but human nature changes very little.

The romance of The Three Kingdoms is about history, but the humanity it reveals is still relevant today.

It is, so to speak, a "life revelation" for adults and a "life textbook" for children.

To understand the stories and humanity of The Three Kingdoms, our life will go further and further.